Sunday, August 29, 2010

My Son has another love, and it's not grandma!

As parents, we are not very comfortable not knowing what is going on in our child’s life. But as your teen starts to date, you will need to take a step back and not try to know ‘everything’. You may at first have a hard time and feel like something is wrong. That is normal – your parenting role is changing. Change always feels awkward at first. On the other hand, your teenager may want to chat about the experience. He/she may have some questions to ask. If so, make yourself available. But remember to try not to ‘read into’ any of the questions and begin prying. (copied from another site)

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Wednesday July 7, 2010

I found this information online, and copied it....interesting stuff.
How to Minimize Dust in the House





Whether you have allergies, asthma, or nothing at all, you should make an effort to minimize the dust in your home. Even if only for friends and other guests, keeping a dust-free home will minimize breathing trouble, allergies, and a generally unkept look. Keep reading for some basic tips on how to minimize the dust in your home or office.



Central Filter is Key



Many people choose to save a little money and go with a cheap, throw-away air-filter. These filters, however, do not do a proper job of protecting you and your family from harmful airborne particles. Instead, choose a newer, more modern filter. This will not only protect you by catching and holding onto much more of the dust, but they will also last much longer than other, cheaper filters.



Clean Consistently



One of the most common ways to build dust in your home or office is to avoid cleaning in general. Even a light dusting once or twice a week is vastly better than just letting it accumulate. If you have the time, be sure to clean and wipe down your furniture, countertops, electronics, and other stationary items. Don’t forget to check hard-to-reach places like cabinets, ceiling fans, and light fixtures. Utilizing newer dusters will help you to accumulate the dust on the duster instead of just brushing it into the air.



Keep it Outside!



One of the most dangerous types of house dust commonly found in homes is the dust that gets in from outdoors through air leaks. To get into the house, a lot of air must pass through areas that can be dangerously full of contaminated pollutants. Because you could also be losing significant amounts of money on cooling and heating your home, it would be wise to have an infiltrometer door test done to your home to find any leaks.



Vacuum



Although you might group this with cleaning, consistently vacuuming is important all on its own. Because the floors are where most dust settles, it is constantly being moved around and kicked into the air and into your lungs. Using your vacuum on a weekly basis is necessary if you are trying to lower the amount of dust particles in your home or office. No matter what kind of vacuum you are using, be sure to cover all areas whether they are carpeted or not. Dust can collect anywhere! Also, it is wise to utilize the attachements that come with your vacuum. Using them, you can actually reduce dust in hard-to-reach areas of your home such as on top of tall cabinets and appliances, fabrics like curtains, and even the ceiling fan.



Change Your Sheets



The bed is one of the most common places for dust to collect, in part because of the shedding of human skin cells throughout the night. You must keep in mind that even though you don't see it, it can still be there. To lower your dust count, change your sheets and pillowcases on a weekly basis. Brush and dust off blankets, cleaning them occasionally as well.







Read more: http://www.doityourself.com/stry/how-to-minimize-dust-in-the-house#ixzz0szue3OJk

Monday, July 5, 2010

Summer Storage tips for a small space

"A place for everything and everything in its place." Wouldn't that be ideal? In the perfect home you'd have a place to put everything where it would either look beautiful or be out of sight until you needed it.




If you have more "things" than you have space you'll find some great storage ideas here. You'll get suggestions for making the most of the space you have and find ways to create storage areas where you might not have thought.



Instead of opening a cupboard and finding a pile of things that do not go there, you can be so organized in your home that you could open a cupboard or door and find exactly what you're looking for. When you're finished using the item, you would be able to open the door again and put the item back. Case closed! Storage should be easy. Is it easy in your home?

Or are you just waiting to move into the more perfect home that will have more closets, a bigger garage or attic, or perfect built-in storage?




Don't wait for a day that may never come. Use some of our storage tips and strategies right now to get your things in order.



You should start your storage project by deciding what you really need in each room.



Everything that you don't need should be moved out of the room. Either throw it away, give it away, or move it into the garage or basement, out of sight.



Once you've decided what you really want and need in each room, look around the room for areas of storage. Is there any open, empty space? Don't just look on tables or closets. Look up, look down, under, and next to - your furniture, your bed, your closets, your cupboards. Any open space can be potential storage space for you.



For example, do you see an open space in a china cabinet, under a sofa table, or under an entry table? Use this space to stack wooden chests, beautifully covered cardboard boxes, or lidded baskets to store memorabilia, magazines, family photos, games, videos or computer disks.

•Look Up


There is probably nothing higher than 5 feet in your room, but there's lots of space above. Install shelves 12" to 18" below the ceiling to display collectibles, plants, hats, or photos. (Note: You can buy ready-made shelves and mounting brackets at any building supply store. If you live in an earthquake-prone area, be sure to use a sticky wax product to hold your collectibles in place.)





•Over the Window

Mount a shelf above the windows of the room for displaying things you don't use but love to look at.



•Wall Space

Find standard open wall shelves of any size at a home improvement center for an inexpensive storage solution for books and decorative objects. A structured wall unit or entertainment center can house books and electronic equipment and provides space for decorative displays. If you're going to stay in your home for a while, you might want to invest in custom-made shelves or cabinets. Any of these solutions gives lots of storage space without protruding too much into the living area.



•Behind Closed Doors

It's ideal not to have to look at the things you're storing, unless they're decorative. Increase available storage space by enclosing shelves and cupboards behind doors. Instead of using an open one, choose a bookcase with doors. A 12" deep shelving unit gives great storage without taking up much floor space. Choose a table for the end of a sofa or beside a bed that has a closed base with drawers or shelves rather than spindly open legs. Find a knee-hole desk with drawers for files and office items rather than an open writing desk.

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Return order to your Kitchen

Keeping your kitchen hassel free may seem overwhelming at times. If your like me, in my own kitchen...I often say to myself -"no one is gonna look behind closed doors"... here's the problem with that....are you a no one? While putting away dishes, and pantry items, we look...and it bothers us. What bothers me the most is that I could spend time organizing my kitchen cabinets, only to have another family member come home, empty the dishwasher, and it seems like another tornando hit the drawers again! Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the help, but my family needs a lesson in organizing as well...if only they would read my blog!

Real Simple magazine is an easy read, and often has great tips to help us get and stay organized. They released a book called "The Organized Home"...it breaks down room by room in the house and offfers suggestions on cleaning and clearing your junk.

Thursday, March 25, 2010

No More Wire Hangers!!!


After coming out of the closet (no pun intended) several times this week, I have hangers on my mind. Joan's fierce cry of "No more wire hangers ever!" quickly worked its way into my head.
The wire hanger, which has a simple loop of wire, most often steel, in a flattened triangle shape that continues into a hook at the top....continues to drive me crazy. Crazy no more Tara!!!
I have to thank my fabulous client Jackie for this. She presented me with the huggable hanger by Joy Mangano, bought online through the home shopping network. You have seen similar hangers at Target, or Bed, Bath & Beyond...buyer beware...not the same!!!
I have a new love...GOODBYE plastic, wire, and wood!

Monday, March 22, 2010

Fashion Swaps for your old frocks!!

After re-organizing many closets, taking items to Revente, Curious closet, and Goodwill...I have leftovers!!!
With the rising cost of fashion, it makes more sense to recycle your old clothes with friends. One persons trash, is another persons treasure. It's a great way to get "new-to-you" clothing and accessories, and clean out your closet at the same time.
Do remember, you will need a home for the the items you have swapped.

The rules for a Fashion frock swap are as follows:

1. Make a list, include several groups of like size people.
2. Ask guests to bring at least 5 items to swap, including make-up, handbags, shoes, books, jewelry...anything that one would sell at a yard sale. But keep it simple!
3. Clothing should be on hangers and in good condition. Separate items by categories, such as value type and size.
4. Stage a full length mirror near the swap area, so others can comment on items tried on...in an effort for one not to bring home items they will never use.
5. Have refreshments, and snacks available...usually BYO...and play funky music that reflects a retail store. Music always sets the mood!
(Any items that are not swapped, are in good condition, and in season, try taking them to Revente 803.256.3076 for consignment. Then donate the rest to your local Goodwill.)

Friday, March 19, 2010

Edit your closet like a pro...or be a slave to your wardrobe!!!




If there are things hanging in your closet that you haven't worn for years, chances are you won't!


There are exceptions-of course...any classic staple such as evening wear, might loaf around for a year or two with out an occasion to wear it.




Rule #1...If you try it on, and take it off right away after looking in the mirror...DUMP IT!!!


Try to stay organized by keeping a box, bag, or basket that you know is you DUMP center. This way, when you purchase new items you will have room, and you never have to see the piece again. Out of sight out of mind!




Rule #2...Professional wardrobe consultants and closet organizers have specific principles that help them help YOU let go of the emotional attachment you may have for an item.




Rule#3...KEEP, DUMP, DONATE!!!!


To really clean out your closet, I follow these 3 simple steps. Free your mind, and transform your space by letting go!!!